All Moves
#07⚡⚡ Medium

The Personal Stake

Openers - The Setup

Drop It When

The topic feels neutral to your kid and there's no reason for them to care.

Try Saying

If you got this wrong, what's the one thing it would actually mess up for you?

The Move

1.

Ask what they care about.

2.

Connect the lesson to it directly.

3.

Keep the focus on them, not the grade or the test.

How You Know It Is Working

Their tone shifts from "Do I have to?" to "If I get it right, then..."

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